It all starts with US.

Sometimes we find our happiness in people who find their happiness in someone else.

For a long time I`ve been thinking about this feeling, trying to put it into words and somehow explain it to myself. And today I`ve finally realized one simple thing: it`s not a secret that all people can get a bit selfish sometimes. We always tend to say "I, I, I.. Me, Mine, for Me" but...if we only could think about it for a second... The most important thing in the world is not our own happiness, it`s the happiness of people we love more than anything and anyone in this world. Even if sometimes it contradicts our own feelings. Even if sometimes it hurts us. We must be ready to sacrifice ourselves and to be selfless for other people. For people we love. And in the end of the day this pain will be worth that happiness or a laugh or a smile on a face of a person we care about. And eventually it will make us happy as well. If we thought "He/She/They are okay, are smiling, are living their lives. He/She/They are healthy and happy" instead of "I don`t like it. It hurts Me". Aren`t those the happiest thoughts? Don`t they make you feel warm and happy inside? They do. And that`s it. It`s not that difficult. It`s just...we all need to get it somehow. If we could forget about ourselves even for once, if we could understand and accept other people`s feelings and emotions no matter how hard it was, life would be easier and this world would be so much better. It`d not only be you accepting everyone else, there`d also be people who`d accept you and who`d understand you as well.

Positive emotions of people we love - are our positive emotions too if we can stop thinking about our needs and stars thinking about other people. That`s as simple as it gets. It all starts with us.